The Ordinary Paths of Life
I am teaching a class called ‘Women Mentoring Women’ and in preparing for my next class I was listening to Nancy Leigh DeMoss, http://www.reviveourhearts.com, and she quoted this from a 19th Century German Philosopher; “Show me your redeemed life and I might be inclined to believe in your Redeemer.”
This quote gave me pause. I thought, “Does my life look redeemed?” The answer is, yes and no. As I continue to walk on the ordinary paths of my life, I should like to be able to look back down the paths traveled and see areas in my life where the no’s have been transformed into yes’s. Oh, that I would adorn the Gospel of Christ more brilliantly day by day.
Only by God’s grace can this transformation happen. His Spirit in me focuses the desires of my heart to be fixed on Christ. Daily I ask the Lord to search my heart for defects rooted in sinful, fleshly desires. Why? Because, if I am to herald the same message as Paul in 1 Corinthians 10:31-11:1, “For I am not seeking my own good but the good of many, so that they may be saved. Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ,” then I must render my heart to God for examination daily and sometimes minute by minute and thought by thought.
DeMoss was correct in her conclusion as to why women are not mentoring other women in the church. Stated plainly, women are not willing to mentor other women because they know they are not living out the Gospel. They know their lives are not being lived out in way contrary to biblical mandates. They know that they cannot teach others what they are not living out, or at least trying to live out.
This is especially true in formal mentoring relationships because these relationships are intensely personal. Formal mentoring relationships move past the surface and delve into the deepest parts of our hearts. These relationships make us vulnerable and call us to accountability. These formal mentoring relationships are the ones that take place in church between believers.
What can be said about the informal relationships that happen as we move through our ordinary paths of life? Dear Christian sister: How much more ought we to strive to live out the Gospel in front of those who have not bowed down before our Great King and Redeemer? As we interact with the mundane of life, are we not called to be ever mindful of the eyes that see how we walk, talk, and act? Further, are we not to be actively applying sound doctrine to all aspects of our daily life?
The world is not impressed by the teaching of God’s Word, because they have not the spiritual eyes nor the spiritual heart to receive the wisdom therein contained, but they are impressed and persuaded by the lives of others. Positively or negatively, our lives influence the world’s view of Christianity. Do I reflect Christ positively or negatively? Do I live in a manner worthy of Christ? On the ordinary path of life, does the world see me or Christ in me?
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